I saw a post of someone being mad about someone telling them to change.
No, no, CHANGE.
Not changing as a person is telling someone to stay ignorant. We change based on the influences around us to build the character we wish to be. This sentence, don’t change, is seen in bad light.
“She changed, and not for the better.”
“He changed, but yknow, not in a bad way.”
Regardless of how you put it, that statement is rude and inconsiderate. Because this statement is associated with bad vibes, even the mention of it will force someone’s brain to process the rest of the information given in a negative outlook. This can diminish someone’s thoughts about who they are as a person. The world is eternally changing, but you are not.
What is wrong with you?